June 19, 2009

Back To My Blog

I know, I know, I’ve been away too long. The final few weeks of school were very time consuming and then other things got in the way too. Finally, I’m back at it though.

Last time I asked a question and I figure I owe you an answer to my viewpoint. Let me begin by thanking those who did post their thoughts. It’s really nice to not be talking to myself. Now to the question of whether spankings can be completely platonic or must have a sexual overtone;

It’s not simple by any means but I have to say I feel spankings can be totally platonic. The sexual side is something inserted by people who have certain feelings about spanking. I think a lot of people have some sexual energy that revolves around the spanking relationship because of its inherent properties of dominance and submission. This is why spanking is probably the most common sexually related game between adults. Still, the emotions between a parent spanking a child and those between a husband spanking a wife are not necessarily sexually driven. In the case where spanking is used to correct bad behavior I think the spanking can be utterly platonic without even the hint of sexual domination or submission being present. The key word here being “can” as I do believe that in some relationships the act of spanking is always sexually related.

My parents took off for Paris a few days ago which means I’m stuck at my oldest brother’s house. They’ll be gone for about a month and my other brother took his son on a vacation as well. I could have gone with but I didn’t feel like it. Hanging out with nothing to do and nowhere to go was just a lot more appealing to me. Seriously, I don’t know why I feel that way this year, but I do. Fortunately my brother and his family don’t mind having me around.

Amazingly I’ve managed to avoid any spankings for a little while now. Now what you’ll find really odd and disturbing is that I am a little sad about that. I’m sure it’s a good thing to be avoiding trouble and all that but sometimes it feels a little like nobody cares. Having that red backside all aglow and tingling while standing in corner waiting to escape to my room can be warmly reassuring at times and right now, as much as I’d hate it, that would feel pretty good too.


  1. Uh oh, sounds like someone is going to be testing the limits a bit in the near future, whether conciously, or subconciously. I do wish you luck.


  2. I'm really glad to see you posting again. Hopefully you can bring up more important topics like this one in the near future.

  3. Good to see you back! Good luck and I hope you really stay out of trouble. Remember how it feels, it's not that much fun.

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  5. I don't think that I "insert" sexual feelings int of spanking. Spanking turns me on; that's just the way it is. And it has nothing to do with a parent spanking a child. That's a topic that's out of bounds on my blog.

    Some people enjoy spankings for reasons other than foreplay, though, ans those could be categorized as platonic spankings.


  6. I have to agree with Hermoine, spankings are purely sexual for me, it's not inserted, it is intrinsic.
    You have an interesting blog. Keep it up.
    Jean Marie

  7. Andrea,

    This is a very relevant issue. No doubt, sexual feelings are aroused when experiencing, witnessing and discussing punishment spankings. The question is what we do with these feelings. As a heterosexual male I experience them in great many circumstances, I can’t help it, it is pretty much automatic, but I accept the frustration until I find a willing partner. Controlling sexual arousal is the price we pay for living in society. When a young and attractive woman disrobes to receive the just retribution of her misbehaviour, of course males will not remain insensitive and females, who often tend to eroticise fear, shame and powerlessness, will imagine themselves in her position and experience a sexual reaction. What’s wrong with that when you are witnesses? What you feel (or not) remains purely personal.

    The situation is different for the punisher and the spankee. The intensity of sexual feelings may cause the punisher to get a bit carried away (sadism?), or the opposite, to inhibit his metering out of the correction; the latter is often noted when arousal is totally inappropriate, as when the punisher is a spankee’s close relative. He feels guilty. He should then desist. A foxy, sexy culprit may also deliberately arouse sexual feelings in the hope that her male punisher will go easy on her (another woman would not fall for this sleight). It is a compelling reason to administer punishments publicly, as your family does. Witnesses will discreetly make the punisher aware that he or she is too enthusiastic, or (you may not agree with me on this one) that he or she is too lenient.


    PS oh my! Three comments to three posts in one afternoon (I am in France). It never happened to me before. That’s how captivating your blog is.

  8. You are a good gurl, well....i am a good slave


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